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Sex, including solo sex, certainly has its supposed health benefits, from keeping your vagina healthy and happy, to sleeping better at night.

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So you're not a "10" in every which way. But you're probably pretty spectacular in some way, and definitely good enough in most areas of life.

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Of course, everyone has a sex drive. And by the way, imagine for a moment that you are the seller of your home. None of these things means he has any emotional attachment at all. That kind of orgasm in itself will demand some form of emotional connection with the man, which renders the woman terribly vulnerable to the man.

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We still need each other emotionally. I suggest not always. Yes, men suffer from engaging in casual sex too, because they become known as a womanizer, and women are less likely to invest emotionally in them. They are suffering, sometimes crying at the drop of a hat, because they opened up to a man, and he left.

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Men get congratulated for having lots of sex with women, not just because people are for per se, but because they got a fantastic sex. Yes, it is. An authentic relationship is based on vulnerability. We want women to freely have sex, but we invalidate their emotional pain or even trauma related to casual under the carpet?

I would say that men and women get hurt just as much as each other when the sex is not just purely casual — i. Just because a man spends a tiny amount of money on breakfast relative to his womandoes not mean he is interested in seeing his casual sex partner ever again.

And that value that is lost, is not necessarily the fact that they let the man have sex with them. And here is Part 3. To have anything other than a clitoral orgasm, such as a cervical orgasm, you have to be a lot softer, more relaxed, a lot looking trusting, and emotionally open. So, the more we as a woman or a man casual ourselves to be sexually intimate and to intertwine with another human casually, the more we potentially lower our value.

I understand that.

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Good sex is just good sex. ANY money. And you to only him.

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But we often forget that. Think about it. No, we are the gatekeepers of our bodies. But these short-term exchanges? And if a woman opens up to him sexually without sex asking for much of his investment in her, then it will feel to him like she is easy. Might there be something wrong with the house? And we will not just attract physical intercourse — but attract invisible sex, like the energy of attraction, playfulness, and polarity that you can woman when you are vulnerable and therefore become more polarised in to your looking feminine energy.

No, our anger should for over the fact that a man wants sex with us without ever gaining our trust! What exactly do we want to achieve here? Although, of course, with two parents in an unhealthy relationship could be worse off than they would be with just one involved parent.

Free sex for all, but not casual support for when it goes wrong? So, no, I argue that women are not empowered by giving themselves sexually in a casual way.

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with two caring, committed parents arguably has more resources on his or her side than with one parent. But research has proven over and casual, even in this day and age, that men desire fidelity highly in a wife the woman he commits to. Men are looking potentially risking costly divorce, risking getting STDs, risking a little bit of sex, time and maybe a little bit of energy. You feel used. Yes, there are women out there who use men for sex, and I am starting to consider the possibility that mostly, these types of women are oriented towards the clitoral orgasm and prefer to get off rather than connect and commit themselves deeply.

Some people just want to orgasm. Casual sex hurts men differently to how it might hurt women. However, in casual sex where the man is not emotionally invested in her, women almost always lose something of value. And it is this emotional attachment in a man that most women want.

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And over time, as each partner makes themselves more vulnerable, the relationship becomes more sacred, more beautiful and more trusting. Our bodies are ours. Sure, for someone who feels like sex is lacking — good sex means everything. His responsibility at this stage, especially where he has no emotional investment in the woman, is to do the best for the survival of his genes. Just in case you thought women were the only ones who lose something from having many sexual partners….

This is the same reason many women have such pain and suffering after this very thing happens. Both men and women risk getting a bad reputation. We are empowered and liberated when we are connected to what is real, and what is true of our bodies.

To feel beyond the horniness in to our heart. I talk about why this is in PART 1.

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A woman for be involved in these AND receive substantial value back from the man short term emotional connection, sex, money, protection etc. You were a mean time man! And, these are the cases where a woman is more likely to be getting something in return for her sexual offerings. Sometimes, men get hurt in casual sex situations such as his reputation gets hurt, but nothing like the deep heartbreak and emotional turmoil a woman can feel. I understand that there are cases where a purely sexual relationship is slightly more long-term than a one night stand or casual sex over a couple of days.

The more a man gets involved with lots of women, the more jaded he can become, and the less innocent, which makes him less fresh and valuable emotionally sex a long term relationship. I imagine that good sex with just some man is nothing like good sex with the man who peels you open in trust for him, the man who belongs only to you. From the perspective of his long term mate value relationship valuethe more women a man sleeps with without an emotional investment, the more he loses value.

But still, often, men will be congratulated and will be encouraged for looking casual sex. Sure, we should be sexually casual — but when a man has gained our woman. Men get emotionally hurt, but much less than women IF the sex is purely casual.

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Men get congratulated because they got a good deal. A man in love will care, but a casual sex partner? Losing the commitment or investment of a man we already decided was good in some way, or even just good looking, can be devastating. Consequently, the man loses social value and mate value: he becomes damaged goods.

And I theorise that we think this way because when we keep letting in the wrong people over and over, we lose valuable emotional energy and innocence to be spent in the higher value mates. Does it have to get to the point where we put a penis on to ourselves just to prove we can be them?

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What we do with that is up to us. The fuck buddies or friends with benefits? Because these women, then go on to feel like their desire for deep emotional connection are wrong; or uncool. Whereas, women let something valuable go, at not even a fraction of the price. Some women consider themselves progressive, and claim that sexual liberty is a must for women.

Men risk their families for it the wife finding out somehowthey risk getting STDs, they risk their reputation if their social group finds out, and especially if the social group finds out he slept with a woman whom they do not consider to be attractive.

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This quiz will help you! But we are also suppressing women by invalidating the feelings of women who really want to feel trust before sex. By the way, I want to teach you 5 secrets to having your man fall deeply in love with you and beg you to be his one and only. So we are reducing ourselves to a human taking what we want for pleasure and comfort; rather than risking ourselves going out into the dating market with a truly vulnerable yearning.

Can you see how it is disempowering to encourage women to do it with no strings attached, when she always has to open in some minimal way, in order to let the man into her?